I have been having the same problem.
I also can not get a full lobby when I "find" a game, it puts me into an empty lobby and will not put me in a game (I spent 20 minutes waiting one time and finally just "joined" someone else already in a lobby).
It seems to happen to many of my friends.
Only after selecting the "Any" option for searching will it even take long, but put me in laggy lobbies with people from Germany and Australia.
What is going on with the servers???
Yes, same here. But it seems it only looks that way. The other day I had a 2 bar connection, and I felt I got shot around corners, so I left. But it turned out I was the host. (host migration popped up, after I left). I have no idea why it keeps appearing why I'm on a 2 or 3 bar connection, when I'm hosting.
i havnt been having exactly the same problem, but the problem ive been having tonight is that when i get into a game, there is multiple host migrations per game, it lags really bad, and now within the past hour ive been getting sent back to the pre-game lobby after like 3 or more host migrations during the game