Hi there Armywife1117,
Sorry to hear you are unable to connect to an online match. Please let us know the platform you are on, your connection type (wired/wireless) and the NAT type that registers in-game.
Also indicate how long you have been unable to connect.
I know this is an old message, but I'm now having the same problem and there is no response. I can't find any reasonable answer for it anywhere. I've checked my modem/router, it's fine. my psn connection is fine. I'm running about 22 Mbps download and 7 Mbps upload. I've even unnecessarily deleted cache/cookies and reset my IP. None of it works. That covers just about everything on my end that I can think of. There are other friends online that I was playing with that are currently having the same problem, I can only assume that it is the servers at this point. Is there something else that may be going on?